Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Q 117 people with a past love, you are eligible to pursue

 Author / autumn heart
do not ask instead, the text does not specify the original author is the theft of the fruits of labor of others, that not only do not respect me, but also an insult to your own personality.
Answer at the fall of the heart free online:
Hello Autumn Heart:
see your article on the Internet, I feel very warm, I also encountered emotional problems. take the trouble to correct me!
I grew up in a lack of love of family, mother is a single-parent families growing up, withdrawn, and his father married to each other character has been substandard, in my memory, they have been quarreling. They wanted a fight I ran away from home, I grew up insecure.
I hour character better talent. Later that year, nearly ten-year-old body because of some of the edge, took a hit, leading to change in my attitude towards life and accept a not quite love students, because he can give me love. Graduation came to a foreign land, work, after being calculated self-abandoned and fell in love with a man should not love some of my relatives are aware of this matter. From left talked about the time love each other very much in love, communication at the beginning He also knew I had a boyfriend. may marry in our deliberations regarding the one day he suddenly asked about my past, said that unless the life if we do not say not to let him know, from his mouth that he is a relative had received This injury, resulting in divorce. And then to know her boyfriend's past is a blank, after struggling through the pain of desperation I chose to leave. Although at the age of twenty years, after which I have had mental disorder, although there have been few experiences of love, but I kind-hearted, strong and independent, but has always insisted on the Self, there is no self to give up again and again, has been looking forward to a wonderful love and happy family, but this thing has been plagued by me. always afraid to hurt each other. now came down to it's age, there are some excellent young side can be simple is a good guy, worried about my ups and downs will hurt them in one day. how can I do? is This is true, as others have said there is so rough to find a Love Story in a man? or the beginning to tell each other in love, or never say these??
autumn heart replies:
everyone through the past bit by bit to form a distinctive self today, and for the past, each person's experience is different, so the world is not the same two people, each person has their own individual charm, there is only each person, including you, including me. In the past you may take the wrong road for various reasons, for his own life left a regret, but it does not matter, as long as you have today is inadequate to understand the old place, and firmly pursue the good deeds , for the better, in the past is not a shameful thing for as long as your own brave, calmly playing, no one can take your past against you.
As you suspected, there are many people in the past have pursuit of a better qualification of love, I can assure you: Yes, you have the right to pursue, it should pursue. is because each person's only sex, it is not possible for everyone in the past are the same, as long as you play in the past , from the pain and frustration to get a positive revelation, the experience of those who bear will become your wisdom and strength. true love only about love, and should not have too many conditions attached, to believe in themselves, but also love themselves, as long as you to love yourself, help them grow, you must be worthy of treasure, deserve a better love. So, worth having courage to love a good love, and meet people who love each other should not confess what should the past? this in my previous article , the details do not need to mention why I will not repeat the specific, you can look at your own article.
Do not be afraid, everyone has a place worthy to be loved, everyone can be brave for love true love never cast aside her longing for the world, a man who truly loves you will know how to accept and love all of you, because never met him before, you never know this world has his, but also because those in the past, Today you are worthy of his love of you, and those in the past, give you the value of love of wisdom.
autumn heart: Hello!
my husband some time ago that ambiguous phone text messages, he told me explained that only my colleagues, there is nothing before them, also decent to me. However, two days before her husband accidentally discovered the man's cell phone number to change the name of a person saved, his description of this problem? I necessary to expose this happened to you?
autumn heart replies:
Obviously, your husband and this woman is not just the general camaraderie, why we have such a move.
marital crisis began, the first to do is to reflect on his marriage. how exactly the relationship between you, the husband will be out the emotional development? it may feel Desperate Housewives has become no longer attractive? are or what you have always been Make yourself has been growing, but not good at managing marital relations, so that your marriage has become a boiled water? mm if only these two reasons, then the response to extra-marital affairs Check your marriage , it is really no way, except by practical factors, such as an affair of divorce division of property, ownership, and so to combat child. Of course, now, I think your husband not to the symptoms.
As change his name to save each other's numbers this point, personal recommendations, you are guaranteed to play in your marriage problems and intends to grow through self-examination after the operation, talk calmly with him, tell him your views and ideas, and hope that he can cherish your marriage and family, and you work together, to hurt each other's feelings, please do not do it again. I think that if he is a mature man to play, he will know how to do; the contrary, he should be derailed, Forced to stop you also can not.

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